It’s hard to approach girls on the beach. And it is even harder if they are topless. Use the following three tricks to approach all girls on the beach, and if they’re not topless, even easier!
DRESS FOR THE BEACH
If you’re in a t-shirt, shoes, and long pants, you’ll look out of place and look like a creeper. But if you’re in board shorts, barefoot, and look like you’re enjoying yourself it comes off as very natural to approach.
It helps if you’re a bit tanned and in decent shape as well, don’t let those be excuses not to approach girls on the beach but also stop lying to yourself. You could be dedicated to making yourself actually attractive.
HAVE A REASON TO APPROACH
If you surf, walk up with your board. If you’re promoting an event or party for your friends, perfect. Even walking up with a coconut in hand helps. It’s perfectly okay to approach groups of girls on the beach, but it’s much easier if you actually have a reason to.
For me I’ll have girls hold my guide book and take a photo for my travel blog, or ask them if they are going to the upcoming beach party. Be careful though not to get stuck talking about that prop all day and ejecting. Talk about it briefly and then transition the conversation into something more personal, and you’re in.
MAKE EYE CONTACT
Take off the shades and make eye contact! It seems like it would be a good idea to look cool in your sunglasses but I’ve split tested both and it’s easier to build comfort during a beach cold approach if you let the girls see your eyes. Remember your goal is to build enough comfort with the group and then isolate the girl you actually like.
You could meet a girl that was tanning and ask her to play beach volleyball with you after 20 minutes of chit chat. Or you can invite a girl to get a snack.
Don’t be afraid of letting everyone in the group know which girl you’re interested in, it’s the entire point!
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