When a girl is at a bar or club, she’s looking to have fun. Fun is what makes us choose to be around a person. So figure out how you can be that fun guy. Along with fun, there are two other ingredients that you need, connection, and sexuality. This means while you’re having fun with her, you have to mix in connection and sexuality. Connection means you’re showing her multiple sides of personalty and learning things about her. Sexuality means that that you’re eliciting a sexual response in her.
When you can do all three of those things she’s going to want to be around you. She’s going to be the one trying to keep the conversation going. She’s going to be working for your approval. And that’s when it gets easy.
JUST BE YOURSELF AND HAVE FUN
Don’t focus on the outcome. The more and more you focus on “what could happen” or “will she reject me” the more likely it will occur. Beautiful women can tell when you are nervous and the nervousness will stem from your focus on the outcome. Go into the approach just excited to get to know this woman and be present in the interaction.
Don’t use a pick-up line! Instead, go up to her and just say something like “hello” or “you looked nice I had to come to meet you”. Opinion openers or other lines that guys have been using are cheesy and give you a higher chance of rejection. After the opener branch into a normal conversation that will get her interested in who you are as a person.
Give her constant eye contact. Eye contact is a great seduction tool. It makes her feel that you’re confident. Hold eye contact with her the entire time you speak. Intense eye contact will also make you appear more dominant which will then make her feel more feminine around you. That’s the goal! You want her to feel feminine because that is what will make her feel sexy and attracted to you.
BE READY TO BE REJECTED MANY TIMES
To pick up an HB10 (Hot Babe 10), you need to practice a lot. That means you will also be rejected a lot. You need to be prepared for that and don’t get depressed about it. You can try any technique, but it won’t matter because if you are new at this, you will never execute any of this stuff correctly without practice first. And for things to work and getting an HB10 to bed, you have to be able to be solid for at least 30 mins.
EVENTUALLY, YOU WILL SUCCEED
Pickup is a process of overall transformation in what you’re saying, how you’re saying it, who you talk to, and most importantly, why you are doing all those things.
Once you understand why everything works you can gain unconscious competence and do it all on autopilot. Eventually, you will succeed. But it all will depend on your confidence.
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