What it costs to hire Thai bar girls for sex in Pattaya depends on a few variable factors, such as how hot she is, the type of bar you hire her from, the price of the bar fine, the cost, and the number of lady drinks you buy. Keep reading to find out more, and the price you might pay for having sex with Thai bar girls in Thailand.
WHAT ARE BAR GIRLS IN THAILAND?
The term “bar girl” refers to girls who are prostitutes, and work in beer bars or go-go bars. They are employed to entertain customers, dance (go-go girls), and to serve drinks. The bars don’t hire them to offer sex services – this is entirely up to the bar girl.
WHERE TO FIND BAR GIRLS IN PATTAYA?
Bar girls work at beer bars as waitresses, dancers at go-go clubs, hostesses at gentleman’s clubs, and freelance in night clubs.
WHAT DO THAI BAR GIRLS DO?
A bar girl’s primary role at a bar is to attract male customers to the bar, entertain them, and encourage them to spend money in the bar. Outside of the bar, the relationship with Thai bar girls is more of a boyfriend-girlfriend – lovers type relationship, unlike the more business-like – cold sex offered in places like for example Amsterdam or LA.
Whether a guy comes to Pattaya only for short-time sex or prefers to hire a bar girl for a day, a week, a month for a Thai girlfriend experience, a Thai bar girl can be pretty much anything a man wants.
WHAT IS A MAMASAN?
The Mamasan manages/oversees the girls. In many bars, the Mamasan is looked upon as a mother figure and a boss. In most instances the Mamasan used to work as a bar-girl herself, she might even be the owner of the bar. This role has disappeared in many bars as many farangs have been taking ownership of the bars.
Lady drinks are drinks you buy for Thai bar girls working in a bar, beer bar, go-go club, hostess bar, or gentleman’s clubs. Prices for lady drinks are between 80 and 150 baht in Pattaya beer bars but could be up to 3 times as much in go-go bars. Bar girls receive a commission for each drink bought for them, and many bars expect the girl to reach a daily or monthly quota of drinks sales.
If you don’t want a bar girl to seat and drink with you, let her know without offending her. In the worst-case scenario just buy her 1 drink then make your excuses and leave.
PLAYING GAMES WITH BAR GIRLS
Games, including Connect 4, dice games, and Jenga, are often used as ice-breakers, and to encourage you to stay a little longer and spend more money. In Pattaya, the bar girl’s game of choice is Connect 4, and they also love to play for money. Let me tell you playing Connect 4 with a bar girl is a sure, but fun way to lose money in Pattaya.
LONG TIME PRICES
When you hire a bar girl for “long time” it typically means she will stay with you throughout the day and night, either until early morning or when she’s due to start her next shift at the bar. Of course, her definition of “long time” might not be the same as yours, so it’s best to be clear from the outset exactly what you expect.
Girls from beer bars are likely to ask for a minimum 2000 baht for long-time. Go-go dancers might as for 3000 to 5000 baht. There is no set price for bar girls in Pattaya, whether they are from a beer bar, a go-go club or gentleman’s club. It all depends on what you both think she’s worth, how much she thinks she can get out of you, and your negotiating skills.
SHORT TIME PRICES
If you take a girl for a “short time” you would normally take her to a room on the bar premises and enjoy some “short time sex” activities for an hour or two.
Prices for short-time sex in Pattaya vary from bar to bar but should be in the 1,500 to 2000 baht range, including the bar fine and room rental. Short-time at go-go bars is at least double the price.
HIRING BAR GIRLS AS GIRLFRIEND OR TRAVEL COMPANION
Most girls are happy to hang out for a few days or double up as a girlfriend travel guide. You just pay her, and the bar as per usual.
BAR FINE PRICES IN PATTAYA
Before you can take a Thai bar girl or hostess from a bar, you must pay a bar fine. The bar-fine is paid to the bar as compensation for the temporary loss of one of the bar staff. So if you take a girl from a bar for long-time, you pay the bar-fine for every day that she stays in your company and does not return to work in the bar.
Bar-fines at beer bar complexes are generally around 300 to 600 baht. Bar fines at go-go clubs in Pattaya vary from club to club. You would be lucky to find one with a bar fine of less than 1000 baht, and 1,500 baht is typical for most, but some reduce the rate after midnight.
PRICE OF FREELANCERS IN PATTAYA
The price of a freelance girl in Pattaya should be comparable to the amount you would pay a bar girl, minus the bar fine. There’s a lot of girls working freelance in Pattaya, either part-time or full time. Not only bar girls or ex bar girls, but girls with ordinary jobs in stores, hotels, etc. Freelance girls hang in popular nightclubs and discos such as Insomnia and Marine Disco on Walking Street.
TAKING A BAR GIRL TO YOUR HOTEL IN PATTAYA
Most hotels in Pattaya are guest (joiner) friendly, meaning so long as you are the only occupant, and you booked the room for 2 occupants, they allow you to take bar-girls back to your room free of charge. If your hotel is not guest friendly – they will charge a joining fee, which could be as much as 1,500 baht, every time you take a guest/girl back to your room.
NEVER PAY BAR GIRLS IN ADVANCE
Some bar girls will ask for money upfront. They may offer you a convincing reason to hand over your money, such as they need to pay back a loan to a friend, or whatever. If you pay her, well, she’s got your money now, and that’s all she’s in it for. There’s a very good chance she will speed things along, and make excuses to be somewhere else.
- Always wear a condom. You can buy them at any 7-Eleven, pharmacy, or supermarket in Pattaya.
- Make the girl report to the hotel front desk with her ID: It’s the law, it’s also for your own safety.
- Choose a hotel with an in-room safe box: and leave your valuables and passport in it before you go out. Carry a photocopy of your passport with you.