Many people recommend avoiding Thai bar girls for any type of serious long term relationship. On the other hand, thousands of tourists visit Thailand, become involved with bar girls, and end up getting married, having children, and leading happy lives together.
Bar girls are the main attraction for single men in Pattaya. In Thailand, the term “bar girls” refers to girls who work in bars and other nightlife venues, and make themselves available for sex with customers. In short, bar girls are sex-workers or prostitutes.
Would you marry a prostitute in your home country?
Perhaps not. But thousands of foreigners marry Thai prostitutes. Why?
To understand this issue, you really need to look into the cause of prostitution in Thailand. Why is she working in the bar? Often times ladies in Thailand are pushed into bar work by economic pressure. The minimum wage in Thailand is 300 baht per day, that’s around $8 US dollars for 8 hours work – or $1 per hour.
Do you imagine yourself trying to survive with a salary of $8 per day? Even in Bangkok?
Let’s take a look at Thai culture. Traditionally in Thai culture, the son of the family will support his mother and father until he has his own family. When he has his own wife and children, then his priorities shift and he’s no longer expected to provide for mom and dad. At that point, the Thai daughter will carry the burden of supporting her family forever. This means she is not only feeding herself but her mother and father.
Most bar girls in Thailand have children and they usually deny it. “You have children?” “No, no!”. They get used to saying that, because they don’t believe having children is an attractive trait to potential customers or boyfriends. Once a Thai lady has a child, she will find it very difficult to be in a meaningful relationship with a Thai man. Thai men typically are not interested in marrying women with kids.
It may be cheaper to live in Thailand, but the cost of putting a child (or multiple kids) through school, the cost of feeding your mother and father, running their house in Isaan, and feeding yourself, adds up. For a lot of these women, with very minimum educations, bar work can be seen as a viable choice to solve their money troubles, and maybe a way to find a foreign husband who can provide financial stability.
But isn’t that the same kind of reason why prostitutes in your home country became prostitutes?
Probably. In Pattaya, most times, it’s not you picking up bar girls. It’s bar girls picking up you. You enter a bar, sit down, order a drink. A girl introduces herself, asks if she can sit down, or just engages you in conversation across the bar. Do you like her? – tell her to take a seat. You don’t like her? – make your excuses and decline. But the truth is, if your girlfriend is a bar girl, she will be fucking hundreds of guys while you are away back in your home country.
Thai girls are very desirable
And very easy to approach and get in bed with them. Why do foreign men find Thai girls so desirable ?. For a large number of foreign men, it would seem that Thai women have a certain appeal which makes them more alluring than women back home in their native country. But what is about Thai women that foreign men find so attractive?
The most striking difference between Thai women and western women is obviously the looks. Thai women are famously beautiful, their looks are distinctively oriental and feminine. A stereotypical Thai woman has long dark hair, almond eyes, a slender body, and skin which could be described as golden or olive in color.
From the point you decide you want to get more intimate with her – it’s going to cost a few drinks, a bar fine, and a fee for her. And almost any man seating with her at the bar will stick his cock inside her pussy and mouth while you are sending money to her from home.
In a survey asking bar girls why they prefer foreign men, 55% replied they only want foreign men for money, 16% said they can’t find a suitably wealthy Thai man (so this is also money related), and 12% said they date foreign men for social status (also money related).
So 83% of Thai bar girls will only date you for money. The rest, 17% would date you for authentic reasons, but only if you are attractive. So, from those in the 17%, what do you think are your chances of getting a good wife?
You can say there are two types of bar girls. And they both want money.
The bad girl. You have one type of girl who is not seriously interested in you, but she will never say that. She will seem very keen on you and make you think you’re the love of her life! But you’re not. Through her eyes, you are just an ATM machine. Her goal is to have multiple boyfriends sending her money while continuing to make money every night in the bar. There will be no $8 per day wage for this lady, she can make thousands per month, especially if she’s young and good looking.
The good girl. You then have one lady that will stop working in the bar if given the opportunity. You take the financial burden from her and send her money (she will describe this as “taking care” of her), she stops working in the bar and maintains your relationship. A lot of women start working in bars so they can find a foreign husband, and they are sincere. But this is a financial reason. And you are also an ATM machine for these girls.
So in both cases, bad or good girl, you have picked a bad bar girl, you have picked a professional liar. This type of woman gets paid to lie, and they’re good, they’re very good. She will never ever admit that she’s seeing other guys, or has multiple boyfriends. How can you find the truth?
Do you still think it can work?
Yes, it can work. And I will tell you the only way it can work. Never take your eyes away from your Thai girlfriend or wife for more than 10 minutes!
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