JUST SEX, A GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE, OR SOMETHING MORE SERIOUS
Whether a guy comes to Pattaya only for short-time sex or prefers to hire a bar girl for a day, a week, a month for a Thai girlfriend experience (rent a girlfriend), a Thai bar girl can be pretty much anything a man wants. Even a good and sexy wife? well maybe.
So you’ve just arrived in Pattaya, it’s time to see what it’s all about.
THE STEPS – THE ORDER OF PLAY AND PAY
1) You enter a bar, take a seat, order a beer (90 baht).
2) A girl might come along, introduce herself, ask is she can sit down. Most Thai bar-girls introductory lines are: what’s your name? where you come from? where you stay?, how long you stay in Thailand?, is this your first time Thailand? Those questions are a little more than just idle chit-chat. She’s finding-out a few basic facts, like – are you rich, are you a tourist, are you still green, does she have time to get under your skin.
3) Before, during, or after the chit-chat, she will ask if you would like to buy her a drink – if you never offered already. (Thai lady drink 150 baht). Money spent so far 240 baht.
4) She’s really cute, you like her, she seems to like you too. You ask her to join you for the night, she says yes, you negotiate a fee for her time. You buy her a couple more lady drinks (300 baht) and you have another couple of beers (180 baht). Spent so far 720 baht.
5) You pay the bar fine (1,000 baht), pay your bill, and leave. Spent so far 1,720 baht.
6) You take a tuk-tuk (400 baht) to take you and your girl back to your hotel. Spent so far 2,120 baht.
7) You have great sex, she sucks your dick, you bang her a couple of times and fall asleep.
8) In the morning you wake very horny next to a beautiful naked girl. You forget about your hangover and bang her a couple more times.
9) You pay her to leave (2,000 baht) and go to relax at the pool. Total spent 4,120 baht (130 USD). Not baht at all for about 8 hours with a sexy girl (about 16 dollars per hour).
What is a lady drink? Any drinks you buy for Thai bar girls working in a bar, beer bar, go-go club, hostess bar or gentleman’s club is called a lady drink.
Prices for lady drinks are between 80 and 150 baht in Pattaya beer bars but could be up to 3 times as much in Go-Go bars. Bar girls receive a commission for each drink bought for them, and many bars expect the girl to reach a daily or monthly quota of drinks sales.
If you don’t want a bargirl to seat with you, let her know without offending her. If you like more anoter girl in the bar, yo can tell her that you want that girl.
PAYING FOR PLAYING WITH BARGIRLS
Games, including Connect 4, dice games and Jenga, are often used as ice-breakers, and to encourage you to stay a little longer and spend more money. In Pattaya, the bar girl’s game of choice is Connect 4, and they also love to play for money. Playing games with a bargirl is fun, but also a way to lose money in Pattaya.
PATTAYA BARGIRLS LONG TIME PRICES
What is long-time? When you hire a bar girl for “long-time” it typically means she will stay with you throughout the day and night, either until early morning or when she’s due to start her next shift at the bar.
Of course, her definition of “long time” might not be the same as yours. Example: you take a girl at mid-day, at 6 PM she declares “6 hours long time already” and heads back to the bar, and the prospect of another customer. So it’s best to be clear from the outset exactly what you expect.
Girls from beer bars are likely to ask for a minimum 2000 baht for long-time. Go-go dancers might as for 3000 to 5000 baht. There is no set price for bar girls in Pattaya, whether they are from a beer bar, a go-go club or gentleman’s club. It all depends what you both think she’s worth, how much she thinks she can get out of you, and your negotiating skills.
Most girls are happy to hang out for a few days or double up as a girlfriend come travel guide. You just pay her, and the bar as per usual.
NEGOTIATING THE PRICE WITH BARGIRLS IN PATTAYA
Some bar girls are upfront, they will immediately state their opening price. Others hedge their bets by replying “up to you”. If you offer an unsatisfactory price she will most likely reply with a look of disinterest, or ask you to try again.
PATTAYA BARGIRLS SHORT TIME PRICES
What is short-time? If you take a girl for a “short-time” you would normally take her to a room on the bar premises and enjoy some “short time sex” activities for an hour or two.
Prices for short-time sex in Pattaya vary from bar to bar. On Soi 6 – Pattaya’s most famous short-time bar street – a “short-time” might cost 1,500 to 2000 baht, including the bar fine and room rental. Short-time at go-go bars is at least double the price.
BARFINE PRICES IN PATTAYA
What is a barfine? Before you can take a Thai bar girl or hostess from a bar, you must pay a barfine. The barfine is paid to the bar as compensation for the temporary loss of one of the bar staff.
So if you take a girl from a bar for long-time, you pay the barfine for every day that she stays in your company and does not return to work in the bar.
Barfines at beer bar complexes and shop-house style bars are generally around 300 to 600 baht. Barfines at go-go clubs in Pattaya vary from club to club. You would be lucky to find one with a bar fine of less than 1000 baht, and 1,500 baht is typical for most, but some reduce the rate after midnight.
PRICE OF FREELANCE GIRLS IN PATTAYA
The price of a freelance girl in Pattaya should be comparable to the amount you would pay a bar girl, minus the bar fine. There’s a lot of girls working freelance in Pattaya, either part-time or full time. Not only bar girls or ex bar girls, but girls with ordinary jobs in stores, hotels, etc.
Freelance girls hang out online, and in popular nightclubs and discos such as Insomnia and Marine Disco on Walking Street.
PAYING TO TAKE A BAR GIRL TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM IN PATTAYA
Most hotels in Pattaya are guest-friendly, meaning so long as you are the only occupant, and you booked the room for 2 occupants, they allow you to take bar-girls back to your room free of charge. If your hotel is not guest friendly – they will charge a joining fee, which could be as much as 1,500 baht, every time you take a guest/girl back to your room.
Never Pay Bar Girls in Advance. Some bar girls will ask for money upfront. They may offer you a convincing reason to hand over your money, such as they need to pay back a loan to a friend, or whatever. If you pay her, well, she’s got your money now, and that’s all she’s in it for. There’s a very good chance she will speed things along, and make excuses to be somewhere else.
If you paid her in advance, she will leave, suddenly. She will seem a little upset about something. You ask her what’s wrong. It turns out she has a minor crisis to deal with, pay for, she only needs an extra few hundred baht to make it go away. She might be telling the truth, she might also be testing your generosity for future reference, and make a quick buck at the same time.
THE EXTRA PRICE
THE PRICE OF UNPROTECTED SEX WITH THAI BAR GIRLS IN PATTAYA
Remember these girls have sex every day. In a year, they had sex and sucked cock of hundreds of tourists. The risk of getting an STD ad even HIV is very high. You can get expert diagnosis and treatment of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) for a few thousand baht at most clinics and hospitals in Pattaya. Condoms cost considerably less than the treatment of diseases and misery they help prevent, so it makes pretty makes good sense to use them – don’t you think? Always, always, wear a condom. You can buy them at any 7-Eleven, pharmacies, or supermarkets in Pattaya.
THE TAXI FARE WHEN SHE LEAVES YOUR ROOM
Some girls will ask for “small money” for a motorcycle taxi, and maybe even breakfast as well.
LONG TIME PRICES IN PATTAYA PER GIRL TYPE
Long Time is the term used in Thailand to define how long the lady is willing to spend time with you. This usually means it will be all night and into the next morning, and you can date her or just hang out with her. The price does not include the bar fine, which is to be paid extra to the bar.
Long Time can really mean anything that is not Short Time. For example, if you want to have a female companion for a few days you can still use the term Long Time and tell her how many days you want her to hang out with you.
With freelancers, you will have to come to an agreement on how long you want her for. Typically they will hang out with you overnight. You can always negotiate for more days. There is no bar fine for freelancers. This is one of the advantages they have. With freelancers, it also highly depends on what city and area you find them in.
Freelancers are a bit more expensive in the tourist areas like Bangkok’s Sukhumvit Road or in Bangla Road, Phuket. Expect the long time price to be at the higher end. But it’s not too much anyway, compared to western hookers. Expect to pay between 2,000 to 3,000 baht (63 to 94 USD) for all night .
Bar girls are usually cheaper than your typical freelancers. But you need to pay a barfine to the bar. Prices fall between 1500 to 2000 baht (47 to 63 USD) plus the bar fine around 500 to 1,000 baht (16 to 32 USD)
Go-Go girls will be your most expensive option for a long time spent together. But don’t forget, they are usually the hottest girls too. Another thing to keep in mind is that some of them might not even go with you for long time. If they feel comfortable with you, or “like” you, they will. Some of them might tell you they will come for long time, but they leave after a couple of hours of hanging out with you. Just keep an eye out for it. Some of the hotter go-go girls will charge you the max for long time. Long time prices fall between 4000 to 5000 baht (126 to 158 USD). The bar fine can be anything between 1,500 to 2,000 baht (47 to 63 USD).