CAN YOU TELL WHAT GOES ON IN A THAI GIRLS’ HEAD?
Like many Western men, if you have spent enough time in Thailand, you may have had one or two “relationships” with one of the girls in the local bar. If she wants a night off, you pay for her bar fine, and she goes home with you. You both then have a great time and, after sex, probably she will want to eat her som tam with poo pla la sauce (fermented fish sauce) or something that she likes on the way.
You may think she is happy with you, until one night you feel like seeing her, but when you went to the bar and suggested to pay the bar fine for her she said no. You then stay for a while thinking what in the hell is wrong. Then another farang comes in and off she goes with him all sweet and smiley.
Before this, you thought you had a pretty good understanding with the girl, but it must have meant nothing to her. And you feel confused and disappointed.
I hope after this explanation you won’t be confused and disappointed in the future. This “relationship” as farang men see it, is nothing like the “relationship” as a Thai girl sees it. She sees one customer who she can get to buy her out when she’s got no better offers. The other farang was probably offering more money and he was more fun. This is just business. Her business. If she thinks she can get a much better business deal then that’s it. Your girl in the bar is a businesswoman, This relationship does not mean anything to her. It represents going out for the evening to buy later a bowl of som tam and get some small change. No more, no less.
BUT DON’T BE SAD. SHE GETS BUSINESS AND YOU GET PLEASURE
HOW TO MAKE IT WORK WITH A THAI GIRL
Relationships in Thailand are nowhere just like compared to the western. Anyway, always be respectful, a gentleman, and be courteous. Not just toward her but in addition to others. Always remember that Thais are very family-oriented. Her family is and will always be much more important than you. So if you want to gain that girl for good, you need to show respect for her family. The main reason she is working in a bar is to help her family. So you will need to help her family too, a little bit only. It is not necessary to buy a pickup truck for her father or build a home for the family in Isan. Not at all, Giving her a couple of hundred baths now and then and pointing this is to help her family will work wonders. Love her loved ones, and she will constantly appreciate your opinion and presence.
And most important, if you want your relationship with your Thai woman to last, make her family fall in love with you. This way your girl will never break up with you or cheat on you. Because if her family loves you and you break up with her, she will lose face with her family. And that can never happen in her mind.
A man is preferred by a Thai woman who is able to offer her safety. Ensure you will keep her safe and never ever hurt her by any means. Make certain it is possible to offer her comfort of the head.
You shouldn’t be aggressive towards others. Ladies in Thailand are recognized to be extremely reserved and demure, and overaggressive actions can intimidate them or, even even worse, drive them away. Keep it simple and cool. Make sure to adapt to her speed too. With time, she will adapt to yours.
A Thai girl hates a guy who cannot care for himself. Make sure you are mindful of the way you look, the manner in which you smell, and exactly how you dress whenever dating a Thai girl. She actually is planning to wish to be happy with you, and she can’t accomplish that in the event that you don’t understand how to care for yourself.